My partner and I were married for 10 years before the people I was with and I got a divorce.
- Things were pretty wonderful for the first couple of years… Both of us were working full-time and the people I was with and I hardly saw each other except at night.
When our partner mentioned having a family, I put on the brakes. I told her that I was not ready to make that step. I suppose that was when the issues in our relationship began. She did not expect to hear that I was not ready for children. She never got over that and it was entirely the start of the end. The people I was with and I started to argue about the craziest things. Sporadically it seemed prefer the people I was with and I were arguing just so the people I was with and I had something to discuss. There came a time when our partner and I got into an fight about the heating and A/C. I really prefer that the hot and cold temperatures are chilly in the house. My partner never had a problem with the indoor hot and cold temperatures until the people I was with and I started fighting about everything in our relationship. I finally had enough and I told her that it was time for 1 of us to leave the house. I would have happily been the person to go, although she decided to go back to her parents house. Now that our partner is gone and moved out, I can do whatever I want with the air conditioning. I can turn the control component all the way down to 70 degrees and I don’t have to hear anyone complain. It feels lonely and chilly sometimes, but I’m still happier separate from her.