It took so much to convince me to propose to my husband so many years ago.
I was terrified by the whole idea of marriage plus anxious that it would ruin the natural spark that was in our relationship. I had parents who easily failed at their marriage, plus both came from families with their own failed marriages. It’s possible that I subsumed these expectations plus permitted them to affect the outcome of our own marriage, however I’m also to blame for a ton of other reasons. My husband lost his parents a few years in the past plus I didn’t supply him with the emotional support that he was looking for. I should have been a shoulder to cry on, however instead I pushed the man away plus used my personal career as an excuse. Now we’re both irritated plus hiring divorce attorneys to help us through this horrible split. I am truly flabbergasted after reading how much currency at minimum it’s going to cost in attorney fees just to take care of a simple divorce. The attorneys in our state charge somewhere between $225 plus $350 each hour for a divorce, plus I’ve been told that in some instances you could be looking at dozens of hours for the process. That’s thousands of dollars at bare minimum, plus up to $10,000 in the harsh end. Even if both parties find it easy to agree on all terms, you can’t manage to get away from the divorce attorney fees. Attorneys are specialized working positions that require many years of education, rigorous testing, plus all kinds of professional experience. My divorce attorney is well rated at least, so hopefully this was a good investment.