Sporadically I think that our hubby & I have no right being together.
To be honest, I do not think the two of us have any right being with anyone else, either.
Both of us are kind of impulsive & reactive human beings. If you’re not aware, this can make relationships severely difficult, however neither one of us is very skilled in conflict de-escalation or seeing things logically when we’re upset. It turns out, the two of us are both so really sad that the two of us have been miserable at each other for no reason for the past several years. You see, about 3 years ago the two of us decided to install a gas powered fireplace in our living room to cut down on heating costs. Since the two of us spend the majority of our time in the living room, the two of us did not need to pay for a central heating plan to evenly circulate high quality indoor air throughout the entire house. We just needed to give warm, heated air in the one section that the two of us were actually occupying. This is when the two of us invested in a small gas powered fireplace which the two of us both very love. The little heating device does an excellent task of regulating our indoor air temperature for a very low cost. However, the two of us were repeatedly getting into fights about the fireplace. It seemed evident that every time one of us would turn on the heating device, the other celebration would inevitably turn off the fireplace without asking if that was okay, however over & over again, the two of us ran into the same conflict as the two of us battled over the fireplace utilization, and then… One day the two of us realized that the two of us were wrong. Neither one of us was turning off the fireplace to spite the other human. In fact, the fireplace had a timer pick that apparently got turned on years ago… the heating plan was turning itself off every 4 minutes.